To figure this out, think about the kind of stimulation that really gets you off. Is it light and fluttering, or deep and penetrating? Localized on a small area of the clit, or do you prefer stimulation over a larger area? Women who enjoy light, localized stimulation might enjoy a pocket rocket vibrator with an attachment, bullet vibrator, or a strap-on clitoral stimulator, while those who like stimulation over a broader area might prefer a Hitachi Magic Wand.

And speaking of penetration, vaginal penetration isn't necessary for a woman to get off. Penetration can make orgasms more pleasurable for many women, but most women respond more quickly to simple direct clitoral stimulation. Likewise, massaging the G-spot inside the vagina manually or with toys may increase the intensity of a woman's orgasm, but usually doesn't bring it about directly. However, if a woman enjoys simultaneous clitoral and vaginal penetration, she would probably enjoy a rabbit-style vibrator, or a G-spot stimulator with external nubs for the clit.